Knowledge and prior planning can help your children cope with your move.
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Show the children your new home and their room prior to moving. If this is not possible, pictures or videos will help them visualize where they are going.
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Assure children that you won’t forget their friends.
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Make a scrap book of the old home and neighborhood.
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Throw a good-bye party. At the party have their friends sign a t-shirt.
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Have your children write “good-bye letters” and enclose their new address. You may wish to call the other children’s parents so they will encourage return letters.
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When packing, give them their own box. They can decorate it so they know which one it is.
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If you move far away, buy postcards when you stop so they can remember the trip.
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When unpacking, allow them to unpack their treasures then, have them play with the boxes while you unpack.
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Start a scrap book for their new home. Include a diary of “My first…”
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Visit their new school, park, church, etc. Take a camera.
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Help your children invite new friends over to the house.
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Let them choose a new favorite restaurant. This will help them feel in control of their new world.
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Encourage them to send letters about their new home to their friends.
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Involve your children in groups, sports, and activities like the ones they used to participate in.
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Remember even if you only lived in a home a few years, to a young child it is nearly their entire lifetime!
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